Be Unconditional

There will always be those who would measure you up and put you in a box they've created. There will be times when you'll be weighed like dead meat and nobody will give a fuck about how you feel. You will be Ignored. Unseen. Forgotten. You won't always get a prize for being treated like …

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When Things Don’t Make Sense

There are times when I just couldn't make sense of a challenging situation. I couldn't rationalize my way through it to arrive at a logical approach/perspective and I couldn't seem to unearth the lesson/s it has for me either. These instances make me feel all tied up. In hindsight, though, when it happens it could …

The thing that we are Withholding from others is the very thing that we need

I. Seeing Ourselves in Others Each of us has been walking through life carrying some open wounds, more often than not we are not aware of it. Usually we are even more perceptive of each other's bleeding than our own. This is how mirroring helps us to be more aware of ourselves. This is why …

Jesus reincarnated in my life – to literally Sleep in my bedroom

​I've been berating myself lately for taking the retreat I knew I needed, too. I've been feeling anxious; going back and forth in my mind, obsessing on finding new resolutions, new action points that could push me forward in my path. I couldn't keep myself from asking the Universe, "What's next? What should I be …

How to handle Stress? Hold a space for Grace and unconditional Love

We get cranky when we're stressed out. We become more needy. We have less patience. We tend to have a distorted view towards the people around us. We're more likely to think they're insensitive, uncaring - selfish.  This can crystallize into tiny resentments that have a chance of clumping together as time passes by. This …

Unicorn thoughts

Maybe I'm just tracing the lines of my comfort zone. Going in circles. I couldn't seem to find my way out. So all I do is go in circles. Trapped in my own carousel. It's already a miracle, though to have finally realized that I am moving but not going anywhere, that I am in …

Finally, Release

Most of the time the pivotal moments in our life happen in solitude. Just yesterday while I was folding fresh clothes, I got at text message from my father - nothing extraordinary, he's simply asking me about the recent HK trip I had with my boyfriend. For some reason this gesture has touched me in …