Authenticity · Life path · The Self · Women's Room

Create Your Own Story

It doesn’t matter if it’s short or long, written in whatever language you prefer.

You can have it handwritten, printed, scrapbooked if you like. You don’t need fancy covers.  So what if it doesn’t hit the shelves of your favorite bookstores? No group or critic needs to fucking give their verdict – none of that is needed.

What matters is that you create your own story. Live your own way. Add a few more splash of colors into this world. Leave it a little more interesting – a little more changed.

Somewhere, somehow, in a corner of an old unlit room – your story will be a comfort and fire to someone who needs it.

Live bravely, knowing that you are also paving the way for someone else.



On a side note, this is me…

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Life path · People & Relationships · The Self

What no longer fits

…will inevitably fall away (if you let it) because forcing to keep things together will only cause pain.

Our best intentions lead us to make an ending that is deliberate and fair to everyone. However, we see the same situation in different ways and we usually want to move forward in different directions.

When all is said and done, sometimes the only resolution that makes sense is to part ways.

Life path · The Self

How do you wanna move forward?

That is the question.

Even if it feels like you don’t have options – you do. Even if they’re only internal for now. You do have the power to choose how you want to proceed. Choosing to get stuck is an option, too.

Remember this – you are your only life-long partner. This is your adventure. You must do your best to keep yourself whole at all times. Listen to the longings of your heart. Meet your needs.

Don’t hand over your power to someone else. Take full ownership – I’ll say it again, take FULL OWNERSHIP of your life.

Fate favors the brave. Be brave enough to go after what you desire.

Life path · People & Relationships · The Self

Stalemate Sucks

pillowsThis triggers me so badly – when one chooses to be stuck over courageously moving forward. I believe life is too short to be complicated by our own indecisiveness – putting things off, refusing to confront the truth, refusing to take accountability for our decisions. I believe life is just too short to not commit, to not follow through, to not choose what we want at any given moment.

Just fucking choose. Don’t waste your life sitting on the fence.

There are no right or wrong choices when you are doing what feels right for you. And what feels right can sometimes feel scary, uncertain, lonely. But still nothing is more miserable than being stuck because you’re so fucking coward to make a choice for yourself (I told you it’s one of my pet peeves).

Just fucking choose and get it over with.

Life path · Life's Work · Manifestation · People · Spirituality · The Self

Because we are all Creators

selfWe only fail at the goals we set. We only get punished by the rules we create.

There’s no external force that is judging us and holding us accountable for our actions. Heaven or hell are not places we go to in the afterlife – they are two extreme states of being within ourselves, of relating with ourselves.

We can either feel attuned to who we really are or totally disconnected. We only either feel proud of how we live up according to our standards or feel disappointed by how we’re unable to be who we say we wanna be, who we say we are.

Faith · Life path · People · The Self

The only question that matters is: Were you Brave?

diveWe can’t always be certain which is the right thing to do – if by right means getting the outcome that we desire.

But we can always be brave if we choose to. Brave to feel our own emotions, brave to admit the truth, brave to trust, brave to follow where our spirit is leading us into, brave to fight and persevere, brave to go beyond the limits we’re used to and brave to create new rules to live by.

Doing the brave thing may not always be the right thing to do – if by right means getting the outcome that we desire. But I can’t remember anything I made out of bravery that I end up regretting. Maybe it’s not doing the right thing, but doing the brave thing, that has only enabled us to break through. Maybe the rest doesn’t matter after all.

Creative Living · Life path · Life's Work · Manifestation · People & Relationships · The Self

The Go-Getter Mindset

lizmayvWhen you believe something is missing or needs to change – opt for the better way; don’t resort to complaining and feeling helpless – get started and do something about it. This may not entirely address the situation, but it’s a way to start the momentum in the direction you want it to go.

If you’re in the right place, with the right people, at the right time, and if your concerns make sense – your efforts will be met with support. If not then maybe it’s not the right time yet or maybe it’s better for you to simply move on.  Your brilliance and sincerity are better spent somewhere else.

No one will hand you want you want. Big girl, you gotta go get it.