At some point, "commitment" embodies a new shape and form. When you were young, you used it as a way to tie yourself with another, so you can spend time together and share similar experiences. So you can have more fun, so you are less afraid/alone, so you feel more whole. Once you've lived in… Continue reading Commitment
This triggers me so badly - when one chooses to be stuck over courageously moving forward. I believe life is too short to be complicated by our own indecisiveness - putting things off, refusing to confront the truth, refusing to take accountability for our decisions. I believe life is just too short to not commit,… Continue reading Stalemate Sucks
Do you know a cool way to determine how much you've grown? Look back a few years from now, a few months from now, even a few weeks, days, hours and minutes from now - and identify which fears you have tamed, mastered, overcame. Really scan your body, your memories for those things that used… Continue reading Turning Fear into our Greatest Ally
Okay, let's say we get it right for a couple of days, for a few weeks, a few months and even a few years. Then at some point during our progress, we relapse, we go back to our old problematic situation - may it be a previous lifestyle, a disposition, relationships, habits, and just the… Continue reading Why do we Relapse?
You may be confused at the moment. You may be in a foggy part of your path. You may be feeling lonely, probably you're running out of faith in your tank, too. While I won't pretend to know how exactly you must be feeling and what exactly you're going through, 'cause I acknowledge the realness… Continue reading You are not lost. We are not lost.
When somebody gets credit for something exceptional, we're all wowed and we couldn't believe how they could achieve something so well despite their apparent humanity. What we don't see are the innumerable hours they've spent practicing - and failing. Failing hard. Failing and taking the real blows. The rest of us only witness the glorious… Continue reading Cheers to an Open Secret