People & Relationships · The Self

Allow and Connect

How do you forge a relationship with an animal? You ground yourself. You stay present, with full acceptance of who you are and what is. You allow this creature, always free in spirit to come to you. To calm down, to merge with your presence with no expectations of the outcome or the length of your… Continue reading Allow and Connect

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Healing · The Self

Why do we Relapse?

Okay, let's say we get it right for a couple of days, for a few weeks, a few months and even a few years. Then at some point during our progress, we relapse, we go back to our old problematic situation - may it be a previous lifestyle, a disposition, relationships, habits, and just the… Continue reading Why do we Relapse?

Healing · People & Relationships · The Self

My take on Rejection and what other people say about us

I've heard about this too many times - Rejection is not about you. What people say about you is not really about you, it's about them. I've believed in that principle for a long time, but now I would like to argue. Believing that everything other people say is 100% about them is - a… Continue reading My take on Rejection and what other people say about us

Healing · The Self

Girl, you’ve lost that guilty feelin’, oh that guilty feelin’

I had another Aha moment last night, just before I went to sleep. I have realized that my life has been plagued by guilt for every little thing - guilt for not understanding and supporting my mom completely when she needed me, guilt for not being able to forgive my father completely, guilt for not… Continue reading Girl, you’ve lost that guilty feelin’, oh that guilty feelin’

People & Relationships · The Self

Each relationship runs its own course

The other day I asked my higher self why despite working on my relationship with this particular person (I'm not talking about my life partner), why won't it lead to more affection and more intimacy? That's what this post is about. My higher self gave me this profound answer: Each relationship runs its own course.… Continue reading Each relationship runs its own course